Getting Familiar with SBC Blogging

by SelahV on May 19, 2009

Since I began blogging in 2006, the voices of SBC bloggers have changed quite a bit.  Some faded away, others became stronger.  With the addition of SBCVoices, many have been added and more are entering the world of Blogland all the time.  That is a good thing for the most part.  Folks are getting connected.  They are learning about various things within the community of pastors, seminaries, and entities.  

However, there is a tenuous thread attached to the cyber-optic internet connection, too.  Some of the older bloggers (not chronologically by age, but having been blogging early on), have developed specific voices to specific issues and sometimes they are misunderstood by the newbies logging on for the first time.  These personalities may offend, distract, annoy, and divide–where there is no intent to do so.  They may also assume everyone knows specific “terminology” having been concocted during the course of several years of blogging banter.

I have a confession to make.  Before, I began blogging, I really didn’t know there was all this talk about “politics” in the SBC.  Seriously.  I was oblivious to that stuff.  I’ve written before when I use to contribute to SBCImpact, that when the CR was going on, I was playing volleyball with the youth in my husband’s first church, teaching them classes on spiritual growth, and leading them to Jesus.  God was taking my husband and I through two decades of ministry in Kentucky and we were struggling to be all He wanted us to be in our church ministry.  We attended one SB Convention during the entire time.  Our main focus was on the associational and state level.  But we never saw anything we did in a “political” sense.  Just figuring out ways to serve God better in a cooperating body of churches.  And we figured that is what was going on in the convention at large.

Today, when a new person comes into the streams of conversations, simply hoping to dialogue, they can find themselves labeled as being in this “camp” or that, in this “group” or that, or having a specific agenda with a certain identity.  This causes more confusion.  And, sometimes, poor communication.

I know this, because early in my blogging experience, I logged on as SelahV because I didn’t like my real name and didn’t want everyone misspelling it, etc.–so I made up that as a moniker.  The only person I knew in blogland was a certain blogger, so everyone assumed I thought exactly like him (when in fact, I was learning what he thought as I read him).  I had no clue what was going on in this world of blogging and was simply stepping into a new world to ask questions–to learn, make friends, and write ”stuff” to help deal with my own personal situations.  I didn’t know about all the skirmishes, or the divisionary lines that were drawn or being drawn.  I didn’t understand the majority of the terminology (and still am confused by most of it).  I believe most people assume they have a term, ideology, identity, or issue locked into a specific slice of the pie, when in reality, there are choclate chips, pecans, and walnuts all mixed into the slice.  No one is totally clear on the whole pie’s ingredients.  I was constantly looking up terms from posts (still am) and trying to figure out all those five syllable words writers were using.  Sometimes when I commented, I’d be called a “legalist”, other times a “fundamentalist”, often a Biblicist, and occasionally–a “liberal” (go figure).  Then there were the Calvinists and non-Calvinists, the Arminians and the non-Arminians, and the 2,3,4, and 5 pointers.  The tulips and the roses.  I was so baffled by it all, that I wanted to simply go pick daisies and blow dandelions in the wind.

I did learn, early on in blogging, that most bloggers take umbrage to someone asking an innocent information-seeking question.  I tried it on a few sites and came out scratching my head at the attacking voices I found.  Luckily, for me, there were always a few folks in any particular website who would jump in and help me out–very often chastizing the others and emailing me for a while to help me understand the issues before me. 

So, I’m wondering, for all you new bloggers.  Are there any questions, terms, camps, groups, or identities you would like clarified or defined?  I’ve been blogging for nearly three years.   I’ve yet to find a person who can clearly, succinctly and absolutely pigeon-hole any particular camp, group or identity without adding a caveat or two.  So, I say, good luck and God’s grace be with you all if you find an undebateable answer to your questions.  selahV 

{ 21 comments }

1 Deek Dubberly May 19, 2009 at 12:47 pm

Thanks for the word of encouragement to us newbies. Came right when I needed to hear it most!

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2 Olon Hyde May 19, 2009 at 1:03 pm

I don’t have question, but I am new to the blogosphere (speaking of terms, LOL). I have been blogging for just a few months. So I can attest to what you mean first hand. I think one other thing I’ve noticed about blogging is that it is easy to be sucked into one of the “camps,” “groups,” etc. in order to gain notoriety. I know I entered the world of blogging to convey a specific message. What I have found is that I have had to constantly fight the temptation to delve into topics which have nothing to do with why I wanted to blog in the first place. So not only is the world of blogging confusing because of terms, but I think it is also confusing at times because there is often no clarity of purpose behind much of the writing.

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3 Alan Cross May 19, 2009 at 4:00 pm

Question:

The post says that it is by “Matt Svoboda” but in paragraph 2, it makes several references to “my husband.” Not trying to be a stickler here, but I am assuming that a lady wrote this and maybe Matt posted it? Or, perhaps there is more diversity in SBC Voices than we previously understood.

Just wondering.

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4 Matt Svoboda May 19, 2009 at 4:41 pm

Alan,

Thanks for pointing that out! It is by SelahV.

5 Jason Fletcher May 19, 2009 at 4:53 pm

Thanks for the post. Sometimes blogging can get toxic, and for some reason SBC blogging has a tendency to live up to our reputation (being known more for what we’re against than what we’re for). I’m all for racheting down the politics and lines and racheting up the Gospel.

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6 amy May 20, 2009 at 8:37 am

SelahV…thank you for putting into words the thoughts that have been rolling around in my brain for several months now. I have left several blogs, sites etc… lately feeling stressed beyong measure because I do not intend to argue as some do. I have personally witnessed precious young “preacher boys” recently give up, as they become frustrated with the arrogance of man and those claiming to be “Gods Man”, the “tugging” you speak of that is so prevalent these days to side with one “camp” or another. The tendency to become argumentative over matters that matter little to eternity. These “older” supposed “wiser” bloggers, many times younger who think too highly of themselves….pastors, teachers, etc… and their arrogance break my heart and I know they break the heart of our Savior. As a pastors wife…who loves the church and our men…I beg of them all, come down a few notches. Listen to Solomons words about pride. Quit worrying so much about trying to be right and love people to Jesus. Time is running out if you haven’t noticed……………..

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7 SelahV May 20, 2009 at 9:05 am

Deek, that’s a great name! Best advice I was given early on was to sit back and read. Not easy to do when you’re full of questions. selahV

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8 SelahV May 20, 2009 at 9:27 am

Olon, sometimes it’s hard to stay focused on your own goals. I’ve found it doesn’t do me any good to get involved with a great deal of conversations. Some folks have no reason to discuss anything with me, for whatever reason they have. And that is okay. I’ve found that what I am saying only needs to be said to glorify God and if I fail in that, then it’s not worth saying anyway. I will speak to voice my voice, but I cannot speak for others. I have no “others”. I’m not out to change anyone’s mind. Or to change any person. Only God can change people. And when I sense my spirit losing peace and joy, I know it is time to bow out of conversations till God gives me the right attitude and spirit to communicate my thoughts. Very often He leads me totally out of the original stream and sets me on the banks to find another hole in which wade. I’ve found and met friends in every stream…that is what is extremely interesting in it all. God bless you as you seek to share your witness. selahV

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9 SelahV May 20, 2009 at 9:33 am

Alan, ah ha! you caught Matt trying to pass off my post as his! :) That will come in handy if what I say brings on a firestorm of attacks. I can say, “Hey, it was Matt! Not me!” :)

Matt: good to see you ‘fess-up.

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10 SelahV May 20, 2009 at 9:41 am

Jason, I suppose it will always be tempting to speak against what some are for and we are not. That’s when we need to weigh our words carefully and check our tone and eliminate our sarcasm. Some things said in the blog-world would never be said in the pulpits. And that, is a good thing….but we must consider these things as we talk to one another where we cannot be held accountable in any real sense of the word, don’t you think?

I, usually stay clear of anonymous bloggers. And I delete those who offer nothing but hate and vitriol in their comments. It’s your blog, you don’t have to open the window to rotten eggs. selahV

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11 SelahV May 20, 2009 at 9:57 am

Amy, you are quite welcome. I often find bloggers who speak well for my muse. I’ve witnessed a lot of misunderstandings in the blog-world. Very often it is because folks “label” others when they do not have a clear idea of what that “label” might mean. I’ve found that not all labels are as clearly defined as the word implies.

I was once told that “men are born to contend”. And because of that we ladies may find ourselves scratching our heads and bandaging our hearts on many occasions. Some egos cannot take the contentions, others thrive on it. I wonder sometimes if this world of blogging is a therapeutic “outlet” for some who cannot voice their pent-up voices in their ministries. We have some truly wonderful bloggers in the SBC. And they have great ideas and brilliant minds. Motives are something we cannot truly judge with great clarity unless we see a pattern within their actions and words. And even then we should all tread lightly in expressing opposition. An individual’s personality has a lot to do with how they express themselves and it’s so very easy to be misunderstood in the blogosphere when we do not have the advantage of the visual smile, the sound of a chuckle, or touch of the hand extended in affirmation.

thanks for your input. selahV

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12 David R. Brumbelow May 20, 2009 at 12:16 pm

SelahV,
Good post. I just read blogs for a good while and then finally started making comments. I’ve enjoyed it and have learned a lot.

I’ve also been called a few names. Dr. Brad Reynolds recently wrote a blog on “calling people names for Jesus;” a great title. We should all strive to be a little more Christ-like in our disagreements.
David R. Brumbelow

13 Dr. James Willingham May 20, 2009 at 12:29 pm

Dear SelahV: Welcome to the wild, whacky world of the Baptist ferment. It has been going on ever since there was a Baptist whether John or some one else. A President of a Divinity School here in NC reported on the ferment among Baptists of the 1700s in this state. He quoted an astute Episcopalian on the seemingly wasted set-tos, but I have another slant on it. That ferment in the 1700s produced religious liberty, the uniting of Separate & Regular Baptists, the persuading of General Baptists (who were not very evangelistic and missionary) to become Particular Baptists (who were both), the launching of the Great Century of Missions, the employment of educated and uneducated ministers alike in Kingdom service, one of the early anti-salvery movements (friends of humanity), the evangelising of multitudes in quantity and quality, and etc. I could say more, but having had a ht attack recently I am out of energy. So must retire to rest. God bless, don’t weaken. It will pay off in the end. I have often been in such positions as a Baptist preacher. So what. Truth never comes cheap; it costs dearly. BUT IT IS WORTH IT ALL.

14 SelahV May 21, 2009 at 8:01 pm

David, We could all use that gentle (and sometimes strong) reminder to be more Christ-like in the choice of our words and how we treat one another. Thanks for commenting.

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15 SelahV May 21, 2009 at 8:07 pm

Dr. Willingham, God bless you as you recover. I know that regimen well. My husband has to be quite careful since his heart-attack. He tires quite easily. As far as the “whacky world of Baptist ferment”, I am grateful for all the Lord has shown me in our ministries through the processing. The fermentation has served to keep me strong in Him. And that is worth any difficulty. selahV

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16 GUNNY HARTMAN May 23, 2009 at 2:56 am

“I didn’t understand the majority of the terminology (and still am confused by most of it). ”

More than once I’ve been tempted to ask a blogger for the official SBC blogosophere lexicon, but have held my tongue … for the most part.

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17 Jim Pemberton May 26, 2009 at 5:12 pm

I know too many contentious women to know that men are not the only ones who are born contentious. I intend that lightly. :)

But to be fair, sometimes the theological contentiousness can become ungracious and rather gnat-straining. This edifies no one.

For newbies, I recommend rather filtering the dirt for the gold. Engage a debate with wisdom realizing that the blogger with the last word is not always right and knowing that readers like me are looking for gold in the dirt rather than worms – and that we can tell the difference.

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18 SelahV May 26, 2009 at 5:33 pm

Gunny, I’ve held my fingers on many occasion since I got them slapped a few times. Reading a particular blogger’s own blog helps to understand where he/she is coming from with specific words–sometimes (Hard to do with anonymous commenters and people who do not have blogs). But really? Sometimes it is most difficult to understand where a person is coming from and what they mean if they do not want to explain or take offense because someone asks a question. So it is understandable you’d want to hold your tongue.

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19 SelahV May 26, 2009 at 5:42 pm

Jim, Let’s see. I think it is better to sit on a rooftop with a crumb or something like that, isn’t it? :)

However, in the world of SBC blogging, I think you’ll find the vast majority of writers and debaters and apologists are male. :) And, I’ve learned a lot from them. Sometimes I learn the most from those who blog about the other’s blog post.

It can be daunting to enter the streams, at times, but when we keep ourselves in check and try to address others with the way we’d want to be addressed, MOST times, we gain. And yes, find the gold in the stream. That’s what most of us are looking for, I think.

Thanks for commenting. selahV

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20 Tony Kummer May 27, 2009 at 10:55 pm

Thanks again for sharing these thoughts. Blogging can bring out the worst in us “religious types.”

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21 selahV May 28, 2009 at 11:11 am

Awh, Tony. Didn’t think you had a worst side. selahV

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