Dr. David W. Manner is the Associate Executive Director for the Kansas-Nebraska Convention of Southern Baptists. He blogs at http://kncsb.org/blogs/dmanner . You can follow him on Twitter: @dwmanner.
In an effort to appease multi-generations and minimize conflict, leaders either attempt to seek stylistic and musical common ground or they divide themselves along age and preference lines. Except in rare instances, it appears from both efforts that the worshiping community suffers and all generations lose. The impasse is a result of trying to accommodate the musical tastes of a congregation made up of both 20th and 21st century leaders, learners, and worshipers.
Gary Parrett and Steven Kang wrote, “Churches must realize that it takes the whole community of faith to raise the children of that community in the faith. But, many American churches have moved with fierce determination to separate the generations from one another to provide more generation specific ministry. Tragically, such an approach to ministry can easily have the effect of encouraging the segregated ‘generations’ to be unduly absorbed with their own needs and to have little concern for others. This runs both ways – from older to younger and younger to older. But it is the younger who suffer most in such an arrangement. And it is the older who will have to give account for shirking their God-appointed duties toward the young.”[1]
Differences between 20th and 21st century worshipers:
- 20th century worshipers are linear, written text, and physical; 21st century worshipers are multi-sensory, hypertext, and virtual.
- 20th century worshipers are independent…independent is owned; 21st century worshipers are collaborative…collaborative is shared.
- 20th century worshipers are stationary…for a lifetime; 21st century worshipers are mobile…for a season.
- 20th century worshipers are deductive…deductive is top-down; 21st century worshipers are inductive…inductive is bottom-up. Note: The weakness of inductive is its limitations in building doctrine. The weakness of deductive is its susceptibility to being infected with dogma.
- 20th century worshipers are local; 21st century worshipers are global.
- 20th century worship is routinized…it has worked for generations…why change? 21st century worship is creative…it has been around for generations…why not try something new? Routinized is predictable; Creative is often unpredictable.
Obviously, the previous list is a generalization. If, however, even a few of the differences are evident in the cultures of our congregations how can we ever hope to find common ground? The answer is…we probably can’t…at least not in those differences.
Multi-generational worship is only possible if our common ground is deference instead of preference. Deference is a learned and practiced submission based on conviction…preference is based on feeling and tradition. Deference encourages worshipers to respond in spite of the circumstances of the tradition and embedded theology that previously influenced their thinking and actions. Deference offers a common ground that style and musical preferences never will.
Deference is the agreement that although we may not always love the music of our children and grandchildren…we love our children and grandchildren. Deference is the willingness to set aside our preferences for the good of those children and grandchildren. Multi-generational worship will occur when the only battle is over who can offer/give the most instead of who deserves/demands the most.
[1] Parrett, Gary A. and S. Steve Kang, Teaching the Faith, Forming the Faithful: A Biblical Vision for Education in the Church (Downer’s Grove: Intervarsity, 2009), 152.
AMEN!
AMEN!
AMEN!
“Of You my heart has spoken,
‘Seek His Face.’
It is Your Face, O Lord,
that I seek. ”
the Psalms help us to focus on the transcendent reason for worship throughout all of our days
If the ways of praying and praise serve to illuminate Christ, how then can these ways of worship divide a community of faith along generation lines?
It was possible for the last 2,000 years.
If we stand firm and do not give in to the culture (which doesn’t give one wit about the church), then it will remain possible.
Why in Heaven’s name would we want to just hand people back to themselves in a worship service. The self is part of the problem.
Thanks.
Steve, I do think, however, that we must be willing to take risks with our worship practices without compromising biblically, theologically, or doctrinally but often accommodating culturally, contextually, and systematically. You are correct in that we often compromise worship by using the language of a culture that doesn’t know what it is looking for in order to reach a culture that doesn’t know what it is looking for. The church will never reach its surrounding culture by offering a mediocre prototype of what that culture already has. And yet, in our attempts to reach culture we continue to mimic its… Read more »
I don’t pay a lot of attention to analyses such as these, mainly because I’ve been to Red Hills Baptist Church, just outside Kingston, Jamaica. Many times.
Instead of analyzing why we can or can’t worship with other generations, we just worship.
My, oh my. How we worship there.
Very good… My two favorite quotes:
“Multi-generational worship is only possible if our common ground is deference instead of preference.”
“Multi-generational worship will occur when the only battle is over who can offer/give the most instead of who deserves/demands the most.”
This has been a constant struggle at my church over the last 7 years. In our city, many churches have basically abandoned traditional music/style. We try to balance the two, so we have a lot of young and a lot of older folks.
Truth is, as David has said here, they often just think and approach things differently.
Best blog post since 1897.
Thank you. I’m currently struggling with this issue at this very moment. I feel like I’m skinny-dipping in a shark tank.
All those differences outlined make is seem like a “slam-dunk” in favor of “targeted generational churches,” as opposed to multi-generational.
I’m ordering Parrett’s book and beginning my own: “Skinny Dipping in a Shark Tank Without Losing Your Vitality.”
Please do not ever put that mental picture in my mind again.
It’s hard to beat, Softly and Tenderly, Just as I am, and Kneel at the cross.
Maybe I’m just selfish, Much of today’s modern songs don’t have God’sname or the name of Jesus in them. To me these aren’t Gospel songs. You have to have feeling in the songs, because Jesus had feelings, the shortest verse in the scripture tells us Jesus wept.
What is wrong with the older generational teaching the younger generation the right way. We were young once and It worked for us.
Jess, I do understand the emotional and spiritual attachment to those songs we have sung for decades as our children were born, raised, and moved away; and as we buried grandparents, parents, and spouses. The difficult balance is in the realization that good, solid texts and tunes did not begin nor will they end with my generation. As new generations connect with the church their emotional and spiritual attachments are not always the same. Worship unity does require sacrifice. That sacrifice is the understanding that I may not always like the worship preferences of my children and grandchildren but I… Read more »
Odd thing is, Jess, I sometimes end up feeling similarly, but my ‘good old, hard to beat’ list is quite different. I got saved in the mid 70’s, and grew up on the Jesus Music of that era. I at times find myself comparing the old Jesus Music to the CCM of today, and modern CCM seems to come up short. Well, to be honest, what I end up doing is comparing the best of the Jesus Music that I remember with the complete range of modern CCM. It’s not surprising that in that comparison, CCM comes up short. The… Read more »
There was a method established that was principle oriented. We do not do it in our homes and new converts come in with ingrained music style baggage we “compromise” to. If the generation gap is a real issue, and it is, we need to learn to reverse engineer our problems. The following is foundational for the Christian home. “And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down,… Read more »
The problem is that we have sacrificed ourselves on the altar of the current perception of success. When the Spirit of God is in control, He brings biblical koinonia to the table. That kind of sharing is able to weather the storm of worship controversy and produce the deference requested by the post. I would submit, however, that deference should be mutual…and the direction of the post is one dimensional. If the younger can only be retained by letting them have their own way, without regard for the feelings of their elder brothers and sisters, we do not have biblical… Read more »
The “old music” can more accurately be regarded as “what’s left of the old music after previous generations sorted through it all, discarded most of it, and kept a few of the most appealing items.” The “new music” can more accurately be regarded as “all of the music through which we still have to do our sorting so that we can discard most of it and keep a few of the most appealing items.” Among the tasks that fall to all us Christians during our lifetimes is the job of creating new music, sorting through it all, discarding most of… Read more »
Bart,
I can go along with your thinking on this issue.
I can go along with your going along with my thinking on this issue! 😉
I think the most important question that we need to ask concerning this issue is to whom is our worship directed? When music style comes to the forefront it begs the question could we possibly have changed the object of worship? The last time I checked worship is to be directed toward God and that is true whether they play my favorite songs or not.
Yes, it is possible and you hit on it when you call for deference instead of preference. We need to value each other enough to not get our way and put the interests of the other ahead of ourselves.
Very good post. Thank you.
Form what I have seen, most of the people in my parent’s generation (folks in thir 70’s and 80’s) have no desire to listen to any of the CCM which is played in a typical “Contemporary Service”, so as a result many churches are in some ways segregated with two different worship services. The older folks are happy in their “Traditional Service” and the younger folks are likewise happy in their service. There is an impression out there (whether statistics back this up or not, I don’t know), that non-churched folks are more likey to attend a Contemporary service, so… Read more »
According to the latest CCLI report (which is through March of this year), Shout to the Lord was the 20th most played song in worship services. So apparently it still gets pretty heavy rotation. You can check out the whole list here: http://www.ccli.com/Support/LicenseCoverage/Top25Lists.aspx
I think one thing would help is to get rid of “I can’t worship unless” disease. God is worthy of worship whether the environment is what we like or not. Back in one of the churches I attended in West Virginia, we had a worship leader who was not only skilled musically (he’d started playing piano at the age of 3, and it showed), he had really learned to let the Holy Spirit lead in leading worship, and it made a difference. When I moved to the Atlanta area, I can’t say I really found anything comparable. So, am I… Read more »
Oh, and um, Dave? Your footnote links to a Word document on your hard drive. I think it’s rather difficult for the rest of us to get to it (and I’m sure you want to keep it that way).
(waiting for the footnote to mysteriously disappear)
I’m a member of Sojourn Community Church (SBC) here in Louisville. I enjoy the worship music we sing even though I’m 52, and most of the pastoral staff is in their mid-30’s. We sing a number of old hymns in new settings (but the original tune is still there), we also sing quite a bit of original material written by members of our worship team. Here is a link to our bandcamp site where you can listen to all of the CD’s produced by Sojourn http://sojournmusic.bandcamp.com/. Curious about what you think of the music.
How does one define whether or not a musical style is from the world? Do you research the history of the melodies used by your church to ensure they were written by Christians for church purposes? “And as I look at the New Testament, it appears to me that worship was tailored to strengthen the believer, not tailored to the lost.” To that I can give a hearty ‘amen’ with one addition: worship was tailored first of all to, well, worship God. Strengthening the believer came next. Anything worship did for the unbeliever was somewhat peripheral. This is one place… Read more »
I try to remind my people that we gather to worship God and build the saints, while we go out to minister and spread the gospel. There will always (should always) be a degree of overlap, but we need to keep these in mind as the norm. One implication: it is not evangelism to invite someone to church. Evangelism means telling the gospel, not getting people to come to your church so the preacher can tell them the gospel. The preacher should be clear about the gospel, but the primary purpose of preaching is equipping the saints for works of… Read more »
Chris,
You said: “There will always (should always) be a degree of overlap, but we need to keep these in mind as the norm.”
I like the way you phrased that. Yes, expositional preaching is primarily to glorify God and to fulfill Ephesians 4:11-15, but I also do as Spurgeon said and “take every text and run with it to the Cross!”.
Press on,
Ronny