Before I answer that question I have to confess that the title might be a little misleading. It is not as if I had ten to twelve different publishers knocking on my door begging me to publish with them. But Cruciform was the only place that I submitted my work to. I did not pursue publication with anyone else. The simplest answer to why I am being published by Cruciform is that they were crazy enough to take a chance on me. There is however, a much bigger answer to that question and I want to share it with you today. Here are six reasons why I decided to pursue being published by … [Read more...] about Why I Decided to Publish With Cruciform Press
Help Select Torn to Heal’s Book Cover
My first book, Torn to Heal, is releasing on May 1st. We need your help designing the cover. Our design team has narrowed their options down to these 11: Which do you like the best? You can read a sample chapter here: Torn to Heal Chapter One. After reading that chapter which cover do you feel best captures the books intention? Go here and vote!! … [Read more...] about Help Select Torn to Heal’s Book Cover
Suggested Resources for Family Ministry
I recently had a dear friend ask me to give him a few resources for implementing a family ministry structure in the church that he pastors. I thought that perhaps others might benefit from the list I provided. Conceptual: “Our church wants to begin doing family ministry”. That sentence can mean any number of things. The people in your church probably have differing ideas as to what actually constitutes family ministry. That is why you need to have a season where everyone gets on the same page as to what family ministry actually consists of. The most helpful book for doing this is3 Views … [Read more...] about Suggested Resources for Family Ministry
Why Our Marriage Retreat is Not “Practical”
Early on in our marriage my wife and I attended several marriage conferences. Our marriage was not on the fritz or anything like that. We loved each other deeply but we needed some assistance in how to do life together. Seldom did these marriage conferences have lasting results. They gave us a few practical tips to take home and apply but within a few weeks our marriage slipped back into our natural way of doing things. What was seldom addressed in these conferences was my heart. Oh, there was the obligatory session on making Jesus central in your marriage. But this was usually nothing more … [Read more...] about Why Our Marriage Retreat is Not “Practical”
7 Ways to Create a Reading Culture in Your Church
Some chap somewhere has said that in 5 years you’ll be the same person you are today except for the books you read and the people that you meet. Though, I think a tad simplistic I do believe that in 5 years you will be shaped by what you have read (or did not read). Call me a nerd all you want, but I am a firm believer that it is very beneficial for a pastor to cultivate a reading culture within the community that he influences. Consider these words from Mark Dever: Without knowing it I have actually put many of these things into practice in the church where I currently serve as … [Read more...] about 7 Ways to Create a Reading Culture in Your Church
When Your Preaching Leads to Pain
A few months ago for our anniversary my wife and I enjoyed a couples retreat. During this retreat we also enjoyed a couples massage. It was weird. Incredibly weird. But that is a story for a different time. I think our massage lasted for an hour. Though as awkward as the spelling of awkward, it was quite glorious. When our hour was up I wanted to plead for another fifteen minutes. Compare this with my trip to the doctor awhile back whenever he had to “work me over” a little. Something was out of whack and he had to contort me like a pretzel, punch me in the kidney, and make me cry like I … [Read more...] about When Your Preaching Leads to Pain
Where Instability Comes From
Have you ever been around someone that has a tendency to go from A to Z faster than a bobcat on an energy drink? You know what I mean. Said person gets stuck in traffic. They then play out the entire litany of consequences that will come from their impending tardiness. In their mind they are about to get fired. Then they will not be able to pay their bills so they will lose their house. The next thing you know the guy is talking about how he will be homeless and eating raw onions out of someone’s garbage can. A similar thing happened to Ahaz in Isaiah 7. He was told, “Syria is in league … [Read more...] about Where Instability Comes From
When Cancer Hi-Jacks Your Reunion
A little over a year ago Jason Taber had supper with his sister, Tonya. This was no ordinary meal. This was the first time they had met. On Jason’s 38th birthday he reached out to his sister for the first time in his life. Now, one year later Jason stands beside Tonya’s hospital bed as she is fighting complications from Hodgkins lymphoma*. Their story is a testimony of God’s grace and the uniting power of the gospel. Jason was kind enough to share his story with us. Jason, can you share the back story to your relationship with Tonya? What inspired you to finally reach out to Tonya? My … [Read more...] about When Cancer Hi-Jacks Your Reunion
Microwave Suffering
My wife has been really busy this past week putting together a Christmas play. This means that for the entire week I have been the chef of the house…which also means that our best meal of the week was either fish sticks or cheese pizza night. Most of the time I just find something to put in the microwave. I’ve discovered that there are two types of TV dinners. One type you stick in for 4-5 minutes then have to turn something, or cut something, or stir something, and then put the thing back in for another 5 minutes. The second type, and my preferred type, is the one that allows you to stick … [Read more...] about Microwave Suffering
A Marriage God Hates
“When you come to appear before me, who has required of you this trampling of my courts? Bring no more vain offerings; incense is an abomination to me. New moon and Sabbath and the calling of convocations— I cannot endure iniquity and solemn assembly. Your new moons and your appointed feasts my soul hates; they have become a burden to me; I am weary of bearing them. When you spread out your hands, I will hide my eyes from you; even though you make many prayers, I will not listen; your hands are full of blood. (Isaiah 1:12-15 ESV) The Lord created marriage. He loves … [Read more...] about A Marriage God Hates