Bart Barber punched me in the gut today! He posted an article entitled "Why I Almost Never Blog Anymore" accompanied by this graph, which basically shows that the more he blogs, the fewer people his church baptizes. Bart is not suggesting that this is a scientific sample, as best I can tell. But his simple pictures speaks a thousand words. He has been one of my favorite bloggers for several years. He has a unique and powerful insight into scriptures, into Baptist history and doctrine, and into human behavior. He has been a voice of wit and wisdom, even though sometimes he has … [Read more...] about Does Blogging Interfere with Real Ministry?
SBC Issues
Ways to Show Appreciation for Your Minister’s Wife
Offer to babysit so she can have a date-night with her husband. Bring her homemade goodies for the children. Give her a pedicure gift certificate. Give her a spa treatment day. Take her to lunch, or invite her to your home for lunch. Have a card shower for her--have everyone send a dollar in the card. Offer to do alterations or any other sewing needs she has. Give her a manicure certificate. Organize meals for a week for her and give her a break from cooking. Be nice to her children; love them like they are yours. Have her children over for a play-day with … [Read more...] about Ways to Show Appreciation for Your Minister’s Wife
Advice for Kevin Ezell and NAMB
I'll admit it. I was torqued off by Dr. Ezell's words to his church that disdained bloggers who criticized him. I was not among those bloggers, but I still felt the unfairness of the criticism. That thread was really active yesterday. But as the day wore on, the comments started to trend a little too negative for my comfort. There seems to be some real anger out there toward the SBC and its leaders and style. I understand that. I get a little frustrated at times. But I do not think that simply venting our anger is productive. Let's turn it positive (group hug, everyone). What … [Read more...] about Advice for Kevin Ezell and NAMB
New Voices Feature – “Brotherly Advice” – What Are the Mandates of the Church?
I need your help. I’m beginning a new series on Voices called “Brotherly Advice.” A few weeks ago, one of our regular commenters wrote anonymously to ask our advice on a situation in his church. We had a pretty good discussion of the issues he faced, and he received, I think, some helpful advice. I want to share an issue with you from my own ministry, and ask for your insight and opinions. And, in the future, if you want to ask a question to the blogging world, feel free to contact me. I will post your situation, anonymously or not. Struggling with a difficult member? Trying to … [Read more...] about New Voices Feature – “Brotherly Advice” – What Are the Mandates of the Church?
Disturbing Comments by Kevin Ezell
(NOTE: Kevin Ezell was elected as President of the North American Mission Board. The BP article did not tell what the vote count was. Congratulations Dr. Ezell!) I have not been involved in the debate about whether Kevin Ezell is qualified to be the president of NAMB. From everything I have been told, he is a talented leader and perhaps exactly the kind of visionary administrator that NAMB needs. We cannot afford a continuation of instability and dysfunction at the helm of this important mission organization. From what I have read, Ezell may be exactly what that organization … [Read more...] about Disturbing Comments by Kevin Ezell
Biblical Requirements for Pastors: Older, Married, and with a Proven Family?
I want us to wrestle with an idea/question: when it comes to the biblical requirements for a pastor, should the pastor be an older man who is married and has a family that has proven faithful? Certainly throughout history there have been a plethora of younger men in the pastorate, we have plenty who post and read here. Some have young children, some are just beginning families, and some are single. (I fit into the young and presently single “category” of pastors). I’m sure that those who are younger all feel called into pastoral ministry…but as we know, desire is not enough. Through the … [Read more...] about Biblical Requirements for Pastors: Older, Married, and with a Proven Family?
A Crucial Theological Issue: Is God He or he?
At Truman Elementary School in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, I was taught that divine pronouns should always be capitalized. That was at a public school. Now today, even modern Bible translations do not capitalize the divine pronouns. Am I just a relic of the ancient past because I feel like God's name should be honored, even by capitalizing pronouns referring to Him. On the other hand, I know that if any publisher ever accepts a book I write, he or she will go through my manuscript and turn He and Him into he and him. I'm interested in hearing other people's perspectives on this. … [Read more...] about A Crucial Theological Issue: Is God He or he?
QUARRELING AMONGST US
IS IT POSSIBLE TO STOP IT? I talked with someone last week who was new to blogging. I noticed a comment he'd made in a stream where we Baptists were arguing and debating theology. He wrote that it seemed as though folks were talking past one another in order to make a point. I asked him to email me and he related, "Our intra-mural squabblings give us a bad name. It belies an intolerance below the surface that is neither Christ-like, nor good for the work of the kingdom." The apostle Peter said, "In your hearts set Christ apart as holy, as Lord. Always be ready to give a defense to … [Read more...] about QUARRELING AMONGST US
Facts & Feelings from Orlando: What Stetzer Can’t Say
I was feeling rowdy this morning, so I left a comment over on this helpful post by Ed Stetzer. Then I realized that blog is a little boring and wanted to set you commenting animals loose. Besides, I think they just deleted my comment anyway! That kind of controlled discussion always raises my blood pressure. He was listing the factors that might keep younger leaders away from the SBC annual meetings. Here's what I said. Thanks for the helpful post and I see myself in a few of your reasons. Here are two more that you can't say: 6. The brand value of SBC is beyond zero and now far into … [Read more...] about Facts & Feelings from Orlando: What Stetzer Can’t Say
Does the SBC Protect & Enable Child Abusers?
The firestorm from yesterday really needs it's own post. Here is a little direction for your ranting: The 2007 SBC Resolution ON PROTECTING CHILDREN FROM ABUSE was a good start, but this only came about after critics went after our denomination. It raised awareness, but is anyone more safe because of it? Most SBC churches are still in denial and think it could never happen to them. All SBC churches are independent, but that doesn't absolve denominational leaders from their role as leaders. They do have influence to make things better. We should talk about failure to use that influence … [Read more...] about Does the SBC Protect & Enable Child Abusers?