Do you ever read a passage of Scripture and think that Paul (or another biblical author) may have had a prophetic vision of blogging when he wrote it? In reality, the issues that come up in blogging are not new, they are just human foibles in a new format. Social media does not create new problems; it simply reveals old ones in a new way. I was reading a post at Mike Leake’s site, Borrowed Light, which had a link to an article at “Gentle Reformation” called, “Short Rules of Blogging.” In that post, the author quoted a verse from 2 Timothy 2, and it drove me to get the Bible out and read that passage. I thought, wow, Paul was talking right to us, the blogging community. Look at verses 14 through 26 of that passage. I’ve not got a lot of time, so I’ll just quote the passage (ESV – as the Apostle Paul intended) and make a few random comments.
14 Remind them of these things, and charge them before God not to quarrel about words, which does no good, but only ruins the hearers.
How many of our discussions become “quarrels about words” which are petty, small-minded and do not lead to the edification of the body of Christ? I sometimes go back to old posts and old comment streams and just get embarrassed about some of the things I said and some of the attitudes I displayed. There is a time to contend for the faith, but most of our blogging battles do not require that!
The word that is translated “quarrel about words” carries the idea of arguing over trifles. I have seen the following:
- Massive arguments over trifling issues which produce ruined fruit!
- An unwillingness to “let it go” or let the other person have the last word. Sometimes we take things to the extreme.
- An unwillingness to admit that our debate opponent ever has a valid point or to refine our own views.
15 Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth.
I will confess something here that might sound egotistical. When I started blogging 7 or 8 years ago, no one outside of my family and Iowa knew who I was. Blogging has raised my profile. It is easy to let blogging become about making a name for yourself or achieving fame. It is a constant challenge to crucify the ego and write for the glory of God. But blogging (as a Christian exercise anyway) is an act of worship and we must “do our best to present ourselves to God as ones approved.” I also must be careful to “rightly handle the word of truth,” and not just use it to make my point or win an argument.
16 But avoid irreverent babble, for it will lead people into more and more ungodliness, 17 and their talk will spread like gangrene.
“Irreverent babble” comes from two words; one means “pointless” and the other means “empty talk.” In essence, this is all the discussion of “Sabanation!” More seriously, we have to be careful to see that all our words have an edifying and God-glorifying effect and do not damage others spiritually or “spread like gangrene.”
One of the tricks I have learned is to simply respond slowly. When someone insults me, my inner Don Rickles (young whippersnappers will have to look that one up) comes out. But, if I wait a while, think about my response, pray about it, let myself cool down, I usually can make a more edifying comment. Or, perhaps, no comment at all.
Among them are Hymenaeus and Philetus, 18 who have swerved from the truth, saying that the resurrection has already happened. They are upsetting the faith of some.
On the other hand, there is a time to name names and confront error, isn’t there? Paul got bellicose with those who messed with the gospel or with the faith of the saints. But, of course, he reserved this treatment for the real enemies of the gospel, not for those who disagreed with certain points of his theology. Those, he treated differently, as he will describe later in the passage.
19 But God’s firm foundation stands, bearing this seal: “The Lord knows those who are his,” and, “Let everyone who names the name of the Lord depart from iniquity.”
There is a lot in this passage, but I want to focus on a side issue here. The foundation of every believer’s spiritual life is God and the knowledge (ie personal relationship) that God has with them.
One of the things that I learned from Henry Blackaby, that I am afraid some of us in blogging have yet to learn is this. There is a Holy Spirit and I am not him. It is my job to speak truth but not my job to convince others of it. If what I am saying is true, the Spirit is my ally, my motivator and the enforcer of that truth. If what I am saying is wrong, do I really want to convince everyone of my error? I am glad that the foundation is God’s work and wisdom, not mine.
That is actually quite freeing.
20 Now in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver but also of wood and clay, some for honorable use, some for dishonorable. 21 Therefore, if anyone cleanses himself from what is dishonorable, he will be a vessel for honorable use, set apart as holy, useful to the master of the house, ready for every good work.
I want my blogging to be gold and silver, not wood and clay – of honorable use, not dishonorable. I must constantly cleanse myself from unclean and sinful attitudes and actions. Blogging will tend to bring out the worst in us, and so blogging rightly is a constant battle against the flesh, which I allow to win too often. But I must remember that the final word on my blogging is not my popularity, my blog traffic,my reblogs or mentions on Facebook or Twitter, it is the opinion of the Master whose interests I am to serve.
22 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 23 Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels.
In my experience, verse 22 has been used as an admonition against lust, pornography and sexual impurity. Flee youthful lusts, or passions. Good advice. True. But in context here, I think there is much more than just sex in view. Look at verse 23. It seems tied to an admonition to avoid foolish and ignorant (that which does not produce knowledge of God) arguments. I hate to sound condescending to the young whippersnappers, but I’m going to tell you my own story. When I was in college, I would argue to the death on just about any point of doctrine and would never admit I was wrong about anything. I can still fall back into that in my weak moments, even as an old fogey. But I think that one of the things I learn with age and maturity is that some battles aren’t worth fighting, or at least they aren’t worth fighting to the death.
I was a Calvinist before Calvinism was cool. In college (graduated in ’78), there were maybe three of us in the school. At Southwestern, there was Dr. Nettles, Dr. Vaughan, me and a few others, but I knew nothing of the others. I was in my cage phase back then and if you didn’t believe in predestination, election and reprobation, the genuineness of your salvation was in question. Over the years, I have modified my views a little, but mostly I have modified how I judged those who did not disagree with me. Back then, I consigned charismatics to heaven’s nuthouse. Now, I love them and have come to see the value in some of their beliefs.
24 And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, 25 correcting his opponents with gentleness.
Note that this is the fourth time Paul has warned Timothy about being quarrelsome. Was that a problem Timothy had? I don’t know. But the key point here is that Paul distinguishes between being quarrelsome and being productive. Our job is to teach, with kindness, and to correct with gentleness. How often do we justify our contentiousness and quarrelsome behavior as “contending for the faith.” But Paul distinguishes between the empty, unproductive folly of quarrelsomeness and the value of kindness, patience and gentleness in our arguments.
One of the blessings of blogging has been the joy of becoming friends with David Rogers. He is a strong advocate of his viewpoints, but I’ve watched him (with jealousy) as he responds with gentle grace in the fact of some pretty overwhelming opposition, even insult. I want to be more like that.
God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, 26 and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will.
This passage ends with a good reminder. There is only one worthy reason to blog, it is to lead people to the knowledge of the truth, or to gain a better understanding of it myself. Our goal is to be “captured by him” and” to do his will.” If I remember my purpose, I will do a better job, perhaps, along the way as I use my words to honor him.
I’m a little embarrassed.
My original intent, “I’ve not got a lot of time, so I’ll just quote the passage (ESV – as the Apostle Paul intended) and make a few random comments.”
turned into 1600 words. Maybe that’s why I never let my congregation out on time.
Yeah, that comment about that David Rogers guy was very random.
I’ve got a little man-crush, David. Sorry. I also offered to snuggle David Worley today, so I guess I’ve got issues.
Actually, I was just testing to see if you are really in your cloistered environment, or if you are actually reading these things.
I’m convinced that Job foresaw not only blogging, but USENET:
“Will your long-winded speeches never end?
What ails you that you keep on arguing?” (Job 16:3 NIV)
That would be hilarious, I’m sure, if I had any idea what USENET was.
I’m sure references to USENET mark me as something of a computer dinosaur. USENET was (actually, still is, but not used nearly as much as it used to be) a world-wide discussion network whose origins dated back before the public Internet, and continued to be heavily used many years into the Internet era. I still consider the typical USENET interface (confusingly called ‘newsreaders’) to be superior to the webforums that have largely supplanted USENET(on a good newsreader, you could easily handle all of the discussion groups you followed in one session(instead of having to wander from website to website, hoping… Read more »
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Usenet In short, broadly available internet news streams based on the Network News Transfer Protocol that are divided into categories (aka “groups”) and for all intents and purposes largely unmoderated. Usenet references USUALLY have an overtone of reference to the period of Internet use prior to general-public access when only research institutions and government institutions had access OR to the perceived nuclear apocalypse that occurred once the transition to general public access was underway. A lot of less than fully legal software used to get distributed via some of the binaries groups as well prior to widespread usage of torrents… Read more »
Oh, good, I’m not the only dinosaur in here. These internet newbies don’t know what they missed.
All I have to say is, I remember (and was part of) eternal September.
USENET! TELNET! FTP!!
And that lovely sound of dial-up 2400 baud until I talked Dad into a 56k modem. All that shareware that I downloaded at night—starting it at bedtime so that the phone line wasn’t tied up.
Those were the days.
And USENET was on my first “accountability partner” check list.
My first internet exposure was a MUD game based in Norway. I got pretty sick soon after starting it and remember knowing it couldn’t happen but wondering if it did happen that I somehow picked up a freakish Norwegian bug.
My first shareware game to download was Wolfenstein 3d on a 2400 baud.
If you guys are going to speak in tongues, then someone should interpret.
Nerd Herd Alert!
Like.
Dave,
Sorry…
The shiny boxy thing was really slow when it made my computer go bleep and bloop but in the end it gave me a really cool game where I got to shoot Nazi’s. One day, I got a faster shiny boxy thing.
Actually, Wolfenstein 3D was the only part of that I understood. My second son used to play that awful game. Every hour playing that game cost the player 1/2 IQ points.
How many hours did you play?
Do you want the answer in hours or days?
“If you guys are going to speak in tongues, then someone should interpret.”
+1, sir.
The side baggage of this is that I knew about computers back when you wrote your own .BAT files to make it load to Windows, not to Windows, or to this neat little 8-color menu system.
Now, I am assumed to “Know computers” when it’s all controlled by the Redmond/Cupertino Mafia Families, and the successors to Don Gates and Don Jobs. And I have no idea why it won’t do what it ought to do anymore.
I had the cracked version of Wolf3d that had all the levels—and put the Barney hack in the original Doom.
Then there were the MUDs and thousands of other things.
Dave: that little box in your house? They’re not playing football in it, it’s actually a magic device that shows you where Iowa is not playing football in real life.
I can remember a telnet MUD game based out of Norway too.
VikingMUD? Believe it or not, it’s still around. I hop on it from time to time.
This one was called Final Realms, but I bet they’re both based on the same platform.
2400 baud! Such speed! In my day, we had 300bps, and liked it!
I just read through this entire comment stream. Here’s what I got out of it:
“Computer stuff…..blah, blah, blah……net this, net that, blah, blah…….Usenet, blah…..kazaa p2p, blah, blah, blah…….ISP, blah………video game…..”
That was pretty much what I got.
Let me guess, you thought Unlimited AmericaOnline was a good deal back at the Y2K, didn’t you?
Yes. Yes, I did.
Dave Miller: “I’m going to tell you my own story. When I was in college, I would argue to the death on just about any point of doctrine and would never admit I was wrong about anything. I can still fall back into that in my weak moments, even as an old fogey.”
Thanks.