Permit me to state some facts before I begin my rant.
- I am a lifelong teetotaler. My only experiences with alcohol have been medicinal or accidental. I have never purposely taken a drink. I was raised that way and I have no desire to live any other way.
- I am not a prohibitionist. I believe that efforts to classify wine in the Bible as grape juice border on the silly. People drank alcoholic beverages and the Bible does not call that sin.
- There are warnings in the Bible about choosing what is wise, about avoiding the consequences of alcohol abuse, and strict prohibitions against drunkenness.
- My attitude toward alcohol is formed in passages such as 1 Corinthians 8-10 and Romans 14-15 where Paul tells us to walk under the Lordship of Christ and make decisions individually about what is best. Absent a strict prohibition on alcohol, I will not make one.
- Paul also warns us (and this side is often forgotten by those who clink their glasses loudly, proclaiming their freedom in Christ to drink) not to use our freedom in a way that harms others or leads them into sin.
So, having said all of that, here’s my rant.
I hate alcohol. In my nearly 4 decades of ministry I’ve seen too many families torn apart, marriages disintegrate, children hurt, and untold damage caused because of the exercise of this “freedom in Christ” to drink. Sure, many people can have a glass of wine or revel in the hipness of their craft beers and walk away. But many others take a drink and find themselves caught in the tentacles of a life-stealing monster from which they cannot escape.
I have been dealing with the detritus of a family torn apart by a man who grew up not drinking, went to a family reunion, and was told by his CHRISTIAN in-laws that there was nothing wrong with alcohol. He was half ridiculed for his upbringing and he decided, “why not?” His life hit the skids that day because he couldn’t handle it. He is an alcoholic and his life and family are swirling the bowl, all because some believers convinced him that alcohol was a gift from God.
Yeah, I know. It wasn’t the alcohol, it was his lack of self-control. It was his abuse. I get it. But if he’d never taken that drink, he wouldn’t be an alcoholic now!
I minister in villages in southern Senegal and it is hard to find a man there who is sober enough to have a conversation with sometimes! I was there with Bart Barber one time, and I remarked that spending much time in the Casamance might turn even the most passionate moderationist into a hardened prohibitionist. When you see what alcohol does to these men, it is hard to be neutral.
I can hear it right now.
- But, alcohol is a gift of God, meant to bless us.
- It isn’t the alcohol, it is the abuse of it.
- The Bible doesn’t command us not to drink.
Please note, I didn’t say anyone was sinning by consuming a glass now and then. Let me be clear what I am saying.
I hate the stuff. I don’t understand the passion some of you guys have for it. I only see the families destroyed, the lives lost, the devastation, detritus, and destruction wrought in the lives of the people I minister to by this stuff. I don’t see the joy of it.
So, you don’t have to justify to me why you use it, but I would say a few things.
1. Be careful about trumpeting your love of alcohol.
Some seem to make the acceptance of alcohol a crusade. I was called a sinner yesterday because I posted something similar to this (a little less forceful, actually). Because I expressed my disdain for alcohol I needed to repent of my sin.
I understand the desire to confront those who twist Scripture to impose non-biblical prohibitions. But the passion that some people have for alcohol baffles me and I think it is unhealthy. If you enjoy alcohol in moderation, that is your business, but offending others and potentially leading someone who cannot handle it to take up drinking seems unwise.
2. Remember the OTHER SIDE of freedom in Christ.
Yes, we are free in Christ in areas where the Bible gives neither command nor prohibition. Paul made it clear, though, that while he’d eat a good steak even if it had been sacrificed to an idol, he wasn’t going to post it on Instagram to annoy the Judaizers.
Those who are free in Christ can follow their conscience under the Lordship of Christ, but they cannot act in a way that is unloving. Paul says that he is willing to neither eat or drink if that will cause someone else to sin. Our freedom is limited by the good of others.
I am not talking about yielding to prohibitionists with their extra-biblical rules, I am talking about being careful about how your actions affect others.
3. While you celebrate this “gift of God” don’t forget the works of Satan.
I will admit, I’m baffled by the “gift of God” talk. I see the verses, but that’s a struggle for me. I just can’t drink alcohol and consider it a gift of God. You do you, that’s not me. But the old appellation “demon rum” has been well evidenced during my four decades of ministry.
Perhaps alcohol can be a gift of God to make the heart merry, but I’ve got Jesus to do that, and a family, and friends. I’ve got grandkids who make my heart merry – I don’t need booze. I have the NEW YORK YANKEES! Who needs alcohol when you can watch Aaron Judge, Gary Sanchez, and Gleybar Torres launch home runs. Come to think of it, Bart Barber may want to take up alcohol this October! Even if the Yankees lose, alcohol isn’t going to soften the blow. I don’t need it and I don’t want it.
But I have seen the path of destruction Hurricane Ethyl leaves as it blows through families. When you get to the heart of family problems in your church, if you dig deep enough, you will often find alcohol (or pills, perhaps) at the center. This “gift” has become a tool of Satan.
Be careful about how you clink your glasses, my friends.
Here’s my bottom line. I am not telling you what to do, I’m just saying I loathe the stuff. It smells gross. I can’t see a single benefit I would gain in my life from it. And I’ve seen a LOT of damage in the world where I minister from it. So, you live under the Lordship of Christ and give account to him, but I’d ask you to watch how you exercise your freedom.
You know…the least of these.
I suspect I’ve annoyed both the Bible and Brewski crowd AND the Jesus turned water into Welches bunch.
My work here is done.
Dave, my position is similar to yours and for similar reasons. I choose not to drink for several reasons, but I don’t carry it as a crusade for those who do. Like many, I’ve seen the negative results of alcohol in my own family and in others, and in my life it just wouldn’t’ be beneficial. A problem occurs, however, when it becomes a tool to badger others who don’t hold to your position. I see that in the other posting you made. I’ve seen it in other posts on that same forum – primarily among fellow ministers – which… Read more »
That is what I’ve seen – a glorification of alcohol. I believe it is a reaction to prohibitionist teachings we’ve grown up with that made alcohol an evil, so people flaunt their freedom. We generally do not do well when we do theology or practice in a reactionary way.
Again, I don’t care what a person drinks in private so much as what they promote in public.
I agree with that last statement wholeheartedly. I told a Sunday School class I was teaching once that every time I see someone holding up a beverage on social media it’s always alcohol. I said “nobody ever takes a selfie holding up a Sprite”. It got a big laugh and a few weeks lady someone texted me a picture of them drinking a Sprite to be funny, but it’s true. Our society has taken to glorifying alcohol, and the church need not follow that lead.
For the record, JD Hall stole this post and published it without permission. i would never give permission for an article to be posted on that clickbait darkness-serving site.
He then concocted a lie about me withdrawing the post here because of negative reaction. That, like most of what JD says, is not true. The post was published and never withdrawn.
JD lies.
What he did was dishonest, unethical, amoral. Pretty much SOP for P&P.
From my perspective: “We believe abstaining from the recreational use of dangerous drugs (alcohol, marijuana, opioids, etc.) is both safe and wise. Drugs should only be used for strictly medicinal purposes, and even then, with great caution. (Proverbs 20:1; Proverbs 22:3; Proverbs 23:29-35; Mark 12:30; 1 Corinthians 6:19; 1 Thessalonians 5:6-8; 1 Peter 5:8)” 1 Thessalonians 5:6-8 NKJV Therefore let us not sleep, as others do, but let us watch and be sober. For those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who get drunk are drunk at night. But let us who are of the day be sober, putting… Read more »
This is also my position. It is different from the way it is pigeonholed sometimes—it is not, strictly speaking, a firm prohibition. Rather, it is a recognition of a uniform standard that applies to all intoxicants. These are not playthings. They are blessings and gifts from God when used purposefully and not recreationally.
I don’t actually share that position, but I think the admonition to be wary, to be careful, and such is well taken. I’ve watched plenty of folks devoured by that which they sipped.
Dave: I share your desire to refrain from any consumption of alcoholic drinks as a beverage and I also avoid foods prepared using alcohol if I am aware it is in the food. My wife and I are often chided by those to whom we explain that we have never touched a drink of alcohol. I just told my brother-in-law today that every doctor I consult always asks if I have ever smoked tobacco products or consumed alcohol. That tells me that both those actions must have an unfavorable affect on one’s health. My wife tells the story of a… Read more »
I love alcohol! The history of alcohol is filled with ingenuity and it always amazes me to see how we take basic grains/fruits and turn them into a useful product and help support farmers. (Bourbon and beer, I’m looking at you here.) I hate when people abuse it, just like when they abuse food and get fat, abuse entertainment and fall in love with the world/neglect others, abuse driving and kill bystanders/other drivers, abuse guns and kill innocents, abuse their positions of authority and cause irreparable damage to the people in their care. The argument that alcohol is wrong from… Read more »
Classic. “I hate alcohol so I don’t want to hear why you don’t. ” yeah color me annoyed. And I do drink occasionally with no apology.
The only defensive response on the thread. Glorification by believers, which Dave addressed, is a sad and dangerous position.
I, too, am a teetotaler, mostly through sheer lack of interest. I grew up in a home where there was alcohol, but it was rarely brought out. Most of what I really enjoy requires thinking, and I’ve never seen any indication that alcohol enhances thinking – just the opposite, in fact. But, theologically, I am a moderationist. To be more precise, I see the Bible as teaching a cautious moderation. Alcohol, while a gift of God, capable of making the heart ‘merry’, isn’t innocuous. The stuff is downright dangerous. I also take instruction from an offhand comment by C. S.… Read more »